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Is it normal to make ambitious plans for my free time and then do absolutely none of them?

Have you ever caught yourself doing this and wondered if you're the only one? It turns out this bizarre quirk is a heavily studied psychological phenomenon. Cast your vote below to see how common you are, and scroll down to read the science behind it.

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The Psychology Behind This Habit

Article Overview

  • The psychology behind this habits
  • Evolutionary advantages and origins
  • Modern implications & studies

The habit of making ambitious plans for free time, only to abandon them, is a common phenomenon. Research suggests that this behavior is rooted in the brain's reward system. When we plan, our brain's reward centers are activated, releasing feel-good chemicals such as dopamine. This anticipatory satisfaction can be so rewarding that it reduces our motivation to actually execute the plan.

This concept is closely related to the idea of 'anticipatory joy,' where the pleasure of planning and anticipation is greater than the pleasure of the actual experience. As a result, individuals may feel satisfied with just the plan, and not feel the need to follow through. Additionally, the planning process allows individuals to imagine themselves in a more idealized state, which can be a powerful motivator, but also a hindrance to actual action.

"Human behavior is rarely random. Even our strangest quirks are deeply rooted in evolutionary biology and social preservation."

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Understanding this psychological mechanism can help individuals recognize why they may be prone to this behavior, and take steps to overcome it. By acknowledging the reward system's role in planning, individuals can develop strategies to translate plans into action, and ultimately achieve their goals.

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The "planning fallacy" — first identified by Daniel Kahneman and Amos Tversky — describes the near-universal human tendency to underestimate how long tasks will take and overestimate follow-through.